Things that I have learned over the years.

Karma is a very interesting thing. I've learned over the years that you get back what you put out there. If it's bad Karma, you are lucky to only get it back tenfold, not worse.

Life is too short to be thinking about people who do not matter in your life. I've hand picked who I want in my life as well as who remains in it. I am very blessed to have who I have as well as the family that I married into.

Life is not a competition. I feel sorry for those who make it that.

Living in the past and trying to predict the future does not get you far because you miss out on the now and the present is what is the most important. Figuring that out is when you truly are able to live your life happily because you do not miss out on it.

No one is perfect and life is not perfect, but finding the positive in every negative makes life that much easier and better.

There are no victims nor are there survivors. Own your actions and behavior. It makes you a stronger person.

Assuming gets you no where. If you want to know, ask. Otherwise, it is none of your business if you do not have the balls to find out the truth first hand. No matter how painful or validating it can be.

Life is good and I hope that it is for you as well.

Namaste

Men!!!

Wants to share about what her hubby did. OY...Last night, he has a 'sweet craving' and went to Walgreens to get something sweet. I told him that I did not have any gas in my car and that I needed to get gas in the morning. Well, this morning, I get into my car and notice that the seat is back (meaning he took my car to the store). I was a bit aggravated and maybe mumbled a curse word or two under my breath. As I sat in the driver's seat while moving it back to short people driving position, I noticed that the gas gauge was no longer on Empty (aka fumes in Heather land) and now on Full. Of course, I double checked it once I turned the engine on, but my baby put gas in my car for me this morning so I did not have to. How awesome is he? I'm so blessed and it's the little things like that that count. :)